The end of one's life has always been a taboo topic for many in China, with many willing to pay a fortune to prolong their lives for as long as possible. But that may be changing.

For people living with terminal illnesses, the few remaining months of life often revolve around expensive modes of treatment and stays in hospital intensive care wings. However, these days, more people appear to be coming to the understanding that quality of life as one approaches death may be more important than clinging on to life through pain and suffering. 

Dr Chen Zoubing is one of them. Four years ago, his father was diagnosed with cancer, and made the decision to give up all hospital treatment. Instead of confining his father to a hospital bed, they both went back to their hometown, where his father lived out the rest of his days surrounded by family and friends. ‍

“When my father was ill, he repeatedly told me that he would like to pass away peacefully instead of suffering through treatment," says Chen. "He said that what he needed most was death with peace and dignity." However, it wasn't an easy decision for Chen. Not all of his neighbors or friends understand why he made the call. Some have even criticized him as irresponsible.

"Four years ago, I struggled with the pressure of sending my father to the countryside home, and abandoning all medical treatment in the city. But if I were given another chance, I would make the same choice again, and let him pass away peacefully, calmly, comfortably," he says.

The choice between trying to prolong a relative's life and consigning them to a comfortable death is a tough call to make for many in China.  Knocking on death's door, no one's sure what's on the other side. But increasing numbers of people seem to be making sure that when the people they love pass away, they do so happily.