In the bustling metropolis of Shanghai, the journey to love began between Ani Karapetyan and Li Dian Bin, affectionately known as Dani.

Born in the 90s, Ani hails from the Syunik region of Armenia, while Dani is from Harbin in Heilongjiang Province, northeast China. They met while working together in the corporate world. This was their first experience dating outside their individual cultures – a whole new adventure they were eager to embark on. Ani, living in China for five years before meeting Dani, had come to learn a lot about Chinese culture, communication and ways of living.

Their relationship, a beautiful blend of Armenian and Chinese cultures, began with a positive impression of each other and later blossomed into a beautiful marriage. 

Their wedding in 2023 was a magical event that beautifully incorporated both Chinese and Armenian traditions – from food to festivities and even dance.

"The cherry on top was an Armenian wedding dance that we did. Everyone else joined and I couldn't believe our Chinese friends could dance so smoothly considering that they have never seen such dance before. Several rounds of group dances really made my day," Ani recalled.

But like any couple, Ani and Dani faced challenges, especially in running their floral business "In Bloom."

"More than challenges, we prefer to call them 'surprising moments.' We simply realized that those differences stem from our backgrounds, so it's alright to think differently. The key is to focus on what matters, rather than who's right," she said.

Despite their cultural differences, Ani and Dani share a love for healthy living and motivate each other to stay fit. They celebrate each other's cultural holidays with great joy and their language skills have improved significantly since they met – Ani's Chinese has improved dramatically, and Dani is doing a great job learning Armenian.

"Both China and Armenia share profound history and ancient culture, and it's truly a great privilege for us to give and share from both cultures, learn and grow beyond," Ani shared.

Ani has grown fond of Chinese fashion. Although she hasn't had many opportunities to dress up in traditional attire, when she does spot the chance, she'll make the most of it.

"I love Chinese traditional clothing. I have worn an outfit once in Chongqing and did a photoshoot," she said. "It was quite a pleasant experience. There were lights and lanterns everywhere and I wore a beautiful red dress with stunning embroidery. I loved it."

Their relationship has also impacted their families positively. Both families were initially surprised but soon became supportive and eager to learn about each other's cultures.

Dani's fondness for Armenia grew after visiting the country and forming a special bond with Ani's family, despite the language barrier. Similarly, Ani's relationship with her in-laws is warm and welcoming.

A big love language in their relationship and family dynamic is their love for food and cooking. Although Ani says Dani has the upper hand in the kitchen, particularly when it comes to Chinese cuisine.

"During holidays we send wishes to family and grandparents. Or we arrange a family dinner when we go to Harbin. We like to talk, share good meals and simply spend quality time together. My husband does most of the cooking," said Ani.

"When we were in Armenia, Dani cooked Chinese food and my whole family was quite impressed. Fried rice and veggies, hot pot and beef noodles are among their favorites."

One of the most significant cultural differences they've encountered is the way they express themselves, especially on special occasions like anniversaries and Valentine's Day. Ani tends to be overly expressive, while Dani is more down-to-earth and relaxed.

Despite these differences, they have found a way to balance their individual cultural identities, paving a new life path based on their preferences and common goals. 

Their advice to other intercultural couples is to go slow, be patient and enjoy the process. Communication is key, and mutual efforts and willingness to learn and teach each other are essential for a successful relationship. Ani and Dani believe that their cultural differences have strengthened their relationship, making them more patient, accepting and excited about new experiences.

"I'd say we naturally paved a new path for ourselves based on our preferences, capabilities and our common goal," said Ani.

"Overall, being in the middle of two such rich cultures is fulfilling and we find pride in living in it."

This article is part of a “Love in the East” series, a glimpse into China's unique world of love, dating and marriage.

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